How to know what you really want.

I remember coaching someone (also in a few other cases talking to people) about clearly knowing what you want in life as a key to acheiving what you want. They usually have two kinds of reactions: 1) They'll start telling me what they want or 2)They'll think really hard and finnally tell me that they're not sure. One thing's for sure...

Knowing what you want is really important. This is because the only way to get yourself to consistently think and act in certain ways that pertains to your success in the field that you want is to know why you are doing what you do. Many people don't know why they do what they do and many more people know why they do what they do even though what they do do not put them in the path of what they want. (what a mouthful n_n) If you think carefully this stuff really makes sense. And the only reason that you do what you do is to get the result you want. That is why we need to know explicitly what we want or who we want to be or where we want to go. Then the next question you ask is how do i know if i really want what i want?

The answer to that question is that you'll never know until you get it. So keep fighting for what you want in life and don't ever give up on anything. If you really don't have anything in mind yet keep on trying new things and read up on anything that catches your eye. Remember to make what you intend to have in life not what you might get, make it what you will get. Make it that...

Failure is not an option